Now That Valentine’s Over……..

Now that valentine is over and the whole gifts sharing and exchange between lovers is over, does that mean we will have to wait a full year again before we show love to those so dear to us. Those we call our own. Our spouse, our fiancee, our very own and most times those for whom our whole world revolves?

I don’t know if am too much of a sucker for love or if the problem is that i have a perfect view of how the world should look like but personally i think our relationships will grow better if we took time off our busy crazy schedules (Some schedules are so busily crazy indeed….) and make time for our loved ones. Make time to send flowers and cakes and treat that lady as specially as she deserves to be treated and just before the guys wait to bite my head off, am quick to say that love is reciprocal and even respect and if i do go on about respect today i guess its going to be a loooooong one because as i sit and type on this page, it’s my closing time already and forgive me but one part of me is out the door and am trying to make this as short as possible without ruining it and sending the message across as in my heart.
No matter how hard and tough we all look on the outside (I think i look tough sometimes but deep down really…… *smiles* I’m not as tough as i look and i wonder if it is a front to even protect myself. I still find it difficult to figure out)
Back to the gist, the world’s sickness going on all around presently all boil down to a lack of love. All of the fights, wars, crisis, terrorist attacks, bomb blasts and so so tragic situations all boil down to a lack of love from the source. The source is the family. The man and the woman who come together to have a child. That smallest unit, small as it seems is the very genesis of so much more. Look, this isn’t foolish or wrong thinking, it’s plain truth speaking. The world is so love sick, people are worn and forlorn, people are heartbroken and depressed, people see no reason to live because their lives are so damn empty and they take to drugs, they take to drinking, they are just trying to find solace somewhere and hide under this guises. They are pained in their hearts, they are empty and forlorn, there’s no reason to live for them and all of what they see is cloudy and hazy, it’s a cold, cold world that God shouldn’t make us travel, hard to come out of and it all goes wrong from Love little as it seems but much more empowering than our eyes can see, than our minds can fathom.
The long term effects of loving and being loved in return, being appreciated are happiness that money can’t buy, fulfillment and peace in our world.
Terrorism is been fought so wrongly and that’s why we aren’t achieving any results! See how far it has taken America to! We can’t achieve peace that way. Let’s go back to the roots, the very basics, the very foundation, it can’t be over- emphasised, let’s go back to LOVE!



About Nita's Own Little Space.....

I am a blogger. I love to write. It is one of the most beautiful ways that life has given to me to express how i feel, how i see life. A way to confirm my most innermost and deepest feelings and also what seem so shallow. I just love to write, it is more easier than talking!!!
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7 Responses to Now That Valentine’s Over……..

  1. granbee says:

    LOVE is what we must enter the terrorism fray armed with! We must connect in LOVE and giving and compassion! Bless you for this brave and worthy post!

  2. Maiya says:

    Truth!!! Written well my friend. Love IS truely the way.

  3. lydiaa5656 says:

    Well said Nita, I guest the demon in us will not allow us to love as we ought to, and the true is, that is what the is crying out each day. I do really appreciate this piece, thanks.

  4. aame says:

    Very True dear…very nicely put…love is all that we need to heal the world…

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